I currently have a daughter who is in elementary school.
I have lost my wife and am raising my daughter in a state of fumbling.
However, I had doubts about the parenting I received from my parents, and in the midst of that, I felt that there were many things
Through trial and error, I spend every day with my daughter.
In the meantime, I am currently studying in a certain field in order to obtain a teaching license.
The relationship I’m starting to make me think about this “favor and love”
It was.
I personally believe that gratitude is something that parents do not need to feel.
It thinks that gratitude is love in return. Just like returning the favor of a crane
A child who grew up feeling indebted to the child said that the parent’s actions toward the child bothered the parent’s hand,
I think we feel indebted when we feel like we’ve been cared for by our parents.
For the child, the actions of the parents are the child’s children, and words such as “I did it” and “I did it” were used by the child.
It stays and has to give it back because they did it, and it is a way for parents to give back to their children.
Unconditional affection is a far cry from that.
Love, on the other hand, means unconditional love from a parent to a child, as typified by unconditional love.
I think it is.
Love is the feeling that a child feels that he or she is receiving affection from his or her parents, even if nothing is done.
I think it is. The feeling that the child is unconditionally accepted and recognized by the parents
I think that when it becomes is in this state of love.
In this way, when you look at the actions of one of the parents, it seems to be the same behavior, but there is such a difference, and which do you think is necessary for the future healthy development of the child?
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